Hi Angel, most often, people do not know their true purpose until it is upon them, even if planning out and achieving many things. Consider a guy, any guy, he can be successful having done everything he's suppose too, to get there. Or a guy who's life isn't so succesful. Now, add some type of heroic act, saving a child from a buring building, pulling someone from a frozen lake, and many other scenarios. Who is to say that their purpose was not to save someone else, rather than many other things...Hold on, cause well, eventually it'll all work out. And consider this. We chose who we are, before coming here. We lived before as spirits and we will always do so. Life is a school!