It Happens....

We tend to say things like "Oh that'll never happen to me", or "Stuff like that rarely happens". There are many surprises that we come across as we move forward in life. Ones that are expected and ones that aren't. Everyone can have this image that their meant to live up to. And one day that image changes, and everything you've worked for just blows up. You get all upset, and depressed. It happens.
We all want to live the perfect life. We all want our children to be happy. Or if you're a child, you want to be able to live the best childhood. Rarely do we ever live up to our perfect fantasies. It just happens.
We tend to think to much on how and what went wrong. We can never just accept that it happens because it happens, or because it happens for a reason. Some of us move on, and adjust to the changes. But there are some who end up falling into a trance of depression that we just can't get out of.
Shit happens, wether we like it or not. We can't change the past, present, or whats meant to be our future. We're not meant to. This is how I think of the situation. Yeah a lot of bad stuff has happened to me. I'm 16 and I've had to mature and grow up so much more faster than I would have liked to. I've suffered debt, and moving around, and failing in school. I've lost friends, and family, to both death, and differences. And a lot more. I do get depressed when something bad happens...I'd be lying to myself if I didn't. But I also learned that everything happens for a reason. I honestly don't know what that reason is. I can only hope it's to make myself stronger for my future. Everytime something unexpected happens for the worse, Just remember it sometimes "just" happens. And never believe that it can't happen to you. We Love, We Lose, We Live, We Die, It happens...